Hi Essexbetty,
We are sorry for the issues you've experienced in trying to resolve this.
Please try resubmitting your 22/23 return.
Then contact us by webchat or phone here:
Self Assessment: general enquiries
24 - 72 hours after submission, we should be able to confirm if your return has been received, give further advice, and address any penalties that have arisen, if they do.
Thank you.