Hi Crosta53,
If you are providing a hospitality service to a UK business then this would normally fall under the General Rule of Services and so the Place of supply would be in the UK and hence UK VAT would be charged.
Please see the guidance below:
6. The place of supply rules for services
In order to recover the German VAT incurred please see the guidance below:
How to claim a refund of VAT paid in an EU member state.
However, if you are providing services of a nature where the place of supply is where the service is performed eg catering then there would be a requirement to register for VAT in Germany.
Please see the guidance below:
9. Services supplied ‘where performed’
Thank you.