Hi,
HMRC have no preference on the document used however, more guidance on the requirements can be located at
TSEM9520 - Ownership and income tax: express trusts - written declaration
HMRC cannot advise you whether or not to use a solicitor, however, the simple requirement for the document are set out in the guidance provided.
Please keep this document in your records, although HMRC may not require it immediately, it may be requested at a later date.
As the property is not held in joint names a Form 17 is not required.
HMRC cannot provide guidance on where the funds are kept, this is a forum for general queries.
Your wife will include the expenses in the proportion of the share she owns in the property, if this is 100%, she would include 100% share of the expenses.
Most types of trusts giving an interest in property to somebody who is not the legal owner now need to be registered with HMRC via the Trust Registration Service.
You can find guidance on the registration requirements and how to register here
Register a trust as a trustee.
There is also more information about what type of trusts need to be registered at
TRSM23050 - Types of trust that need to be registered: contents: excluded express trusts: contents: property ownership.
Thank you.